The pattern breakers

Sit with the pattern breakers. The conversation is different. Every family has one. I can think of no exceptions. Some pattern breakers are also the family “scapegoat,” which I described in a blog entry as the “release valve of a toxic family system.” This person tends to absorb the family’s disowned shadow material, then areContinue reading “The pattern breakers”

Clearing ancestral trauma

Happy Eclipse everyone! I hopped on here to do a quick shoutout to the people who have found themselves in the very privileged and highly-esteemed position of. .. drum roll. ..being the pattern breaker of their family system πŸ˜‚πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ These people often occupy the role of the family scapegoat as well, which is a particularlyContinue reading “Clearing ancestral trauma”

“Symptoms” part 2

I’ve been working with these ideas for over four years, and they’re still challenging for me to articulate. I attribute this to the deep programming and conditioning we’ve all been subjected to in the areas of health, symptomology, treatment options, prognosis, etc Combine this with beliefs around being “negligent” and “irresponsible” if you choose toContinue reading ““Symptoms” part 2″

Arguing with ourselves

Okay, but have you ever seen anything more beautiful, though? πŸ˜„ Shelly is the sweetest; and Puffy is. …very puffy πŸ™ƒ Anyways, I’ve been thinking lately about the unconscious ways we reconcile cognitive dissonance and upgrade our belief systems. I say often if we’re at war within ourselves, we’ll find a war in the externalContinue reading “Arguing with ourselves”

“Mental illness” and spiritual gifts

Thank you @thehighpriestess11 for speaking out about thisπŸ™ It’s a big deal. I’ve been in the mental health field for approx 13 years, and the overlap between mental health concerns and spiritual gifts has been in the forefront of my mind for about the last 5; but I remember wondering about it as early asContinue reading ““Mental illness” and spiritual gifts”