Author Archives: Lindsey

How to avoid scapegoating a child?Stop scapegoating aspects of yourself. ✨️ ✨️ ✨️ ✨️ ✨️ Continuation of post on pattern breakers and scapegoats. .. I was asked this question last week, and it led to a very intentional and thought-provoking discussion with a dear friend. During that discussion, I shared my thoughts on how familyContinue reading “Pattern breakers part 2”

We all know our friends are brilliant and gifted, but we don’t always get to see them in action! I had the privilege of doing a Family Constellations session with my good friend, @monicanaglerspaces last week, and experienced some profound shifts 💖✨️ The irony of this is that I wrote a blog entry a fewContinue reading “Family Constellations”

I don’t share about this a lot, but following an event in 2020, my brain completely changed. The details of that are outside the scope of this post, but I did want to share a little on how I view time. The difference between my current perspective and my perspective prior to the event isContinue reading “Potentiality”

I talked to FOUR different friends on the phone today, and two yesterday! I’m happy to report that everyone who’s currently in my life loves me, and I love them 🥰 The pigs and I took a trip to an undisclosed location for a mysterious (to me) reason 🙃 I had an inner knowing 3Continue reading “Life update”

Sit with the pattern breakers. The conversation is different. Every family has one. I can think of no exceptions. Some pattern breakers are also the family “scapegoat,” which I described in a blog entry as the “release valve of a toxic family system.” This person tends to absorb the family’s disowned shadow material, then areContinue reading “The pattern breakers”

“I accept the trade-off.” This dropped in this morning while I was making my coffee, and I was amused to realize that it actually applies to several aspects of my life at the moment. If you read the blog, you know that this is just kindve how it goes around here 🤷‍♀️ See, there’s aContinue reading “The trade-off”

Happy Eclipse everyone! I hopped on here to do a quick shoutout to the people who have found themselves in the very privileged and highly-esteemed position of. .. drum roll. ..being the pattern breaker of their family system 😂🤦‍♀️ These people often occupy the role of the family scapegoat as well, which is a particularlyContinue reading “Clearing ancestral trauma”

I could’ve sworn I included this picture with a previous post a few days ago, but I realized last night it’s nowhere to be found 🤔 Perhaps the universe knew I had more to say on the topic 🙃🤷‍♀️ We can call this “Symptoms” part 3. Over the past few days, I was reminded thatContinue reading “Symptoms part 3”

I’ve been working with these ideas for over four years, and they’re still challenging for me to articulate. I attribute this to the deep programming and conditioning we’ve all been subjected to in the areas of health, symptomology, treatment options, prognosis, etc Combine this with beliefs around being “negligent” and “irresponsible” if you choose toContinue reading ““Symptoms” part 2″

I’ve come to view the body as a vessel, with energies constantly moving in and out. “Symptoms” are transient and act as messengers, then usually leave once the intent has been met. Anytime a new thing pops up, I explore the question “What is being asked of me here?” Note: It’s less of a cerebralContinue reading ““Symptoms””